"It's hard" he says. With tears running down to his puffy cheeks. Even when I couldn't see his face, I think I can imagine how he will react upon the news he just received, the one he just tell me, the one that breaks him, the one that I never thought of happening. His fiance finally called off the engagement.
Relationship is not easy as we think it is. It not only require your commitments but things beyond that. And believe it or not, no matter how good we are in our relationship when God has decided that this is not meant for us, then be it.
In the softest way, Allah break their relationship. Even he might found it hard now, but slowly, he will get better and happier in the future. Believe it or not, if we could put aside our feeling just for a moment and think rationally, isn't by breaking the relationship, we are actually moving one step closer to "the one" who was meant for us? I mean, hey, it is a good news babe!
But that's not how our heart works. This heart is fragile that we couldn't differentiate what is good for us for the time being. We wants what we wants without considering what will we really need. But it's okay because we are allow to do that. But after you have done enough crying, after you have shed many tears, tell yourself to just stop.
Stop looking at the past. Stop asking yourself "what if" or what else you could have been done to save the relationship. Stop questioning God why this relationship that is so dear to you end in just a blink of eyes. Stop thinking that you are not fighting hard enough for this relationship.
Believe that it's all written and live with it. And as time flows, you will heal. No one says it's easy, but have faith in yourself that you can get through this, because as you think she's different from anyone else, one fine day, you will meet someone who is far more different than her and only then does the true love begins.
Love