Dear self, 

Beringatlah untuk menjadi seorang wanita yang engkau ingin jadi, a woman who strong enough to protect people, who tender enough to comfort people, who firm enough to make decision. I want you to always remember about who you wanted to be. You wanted to be an independent enough to get things done and you wanted to be someone who bring the happiness to your family. 

Therefore, when you meet a man, and he couldn't encourage you for your dreams, leave. When you meet someone who ask you to forget your dream just to live his dream, leave. If he ever asked you to stop doing of what you are doing for your future, then leave. Unless, he able to change all his assets under your name, got 5 million mansion secured, got range rover under your name -- than that would be fine. 

But still, never forget