بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 
In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful

Solemnization is a sacred promise. It requires a lot from a man to commit.

Of course, it is important to choose the person you will make the 'contract' with. This person will be a partner for your lifetime, who his/her face will be the first you see when your eyes open every morning and night. This person will obviously become your all and world. This person will indeed become your pain and your remedy.

You guys will go through a lot -- together/

That's why, it is very important to choose your spouse. Looking for someone who can support you, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. (and yeah, financially -- sebab, you didn't pay your kids diapers and milk with some leaf okayhh). So, at our age right now, we should stop concern ourselves with small things like my partner didn't reply my whatsapp!

Of course, communication is important, but darlingggss, everyone is working their ass to achieve their dream and marry you. So give some space for your partner to focus on their career before they can focus on you in the near future. Be a supportive partner instead. Give them wings to fly up high. Help them to lift to higher level.

And I think, that's the reason why I stay single. Because I cannot handle things like, -- 

need to update what I am doing for every second,